Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

Is he manipulating you?

8 Dec 2025 · 1 min

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In this segment of her dating advice video, Sami Wunder explains that men who are genuinely seeking a serious relationship will not disappear simply because a woman takes additional time—such as a month or half a month—to decide on exclusivity. In contrast, she characterizes "love bombers," sex addicts, and men interested only in casual sex as individuals who will react negatively to such boundaries, disliking the delay because they are after quick, easy sexual encounters. Wunder emphasizes that many men manipulate women to achieve their own desires, highlighting a stark divide between respectful partners and manipulative, opportunistic ones.

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No man who's looking for a serious connection will disappear just because you want to take another month or half to decide if you want to be exclusive or not. And the ones who want it fast, the love bombers, the sex addicts, the ones who are just in it for casual sex, they're going to hate you. They're not going to like your boundary. They're not going to like the fact that you're taking your time, because they are looking for the lowest-hanging fruit in the dating market. They are looking for the women who will have sex fast. You will not believe the number of men out there who really manipulate women in order to get what they want.