Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

Is he manipulative ?

12 Aug 2025 · 1 min

Watch on YouTube

0:33

In this segment of the YouTube video “Is he manipulative?” Sami Wunder explains that a key indicator of dealing with a narcissist or psychopath is their manipulative, gaslighting behavior. He describes how such individuals consistently make the victim feel "crazy" by insisting that the victim’s version of events is wrong and theirs is correct. Wunder emphasizes the importance of recognizing this pattern and advises listeners to hold onto their own perspective and not be swayed by the manipulator’s distortion of reality.

Chapters

The last sign that you're dealing with a narcissist or a psychopath is when they are manipulative and they're gaslighting your emotions. They will make you feel like you're the crazy one, no matter what situation happens. In every situation, they will find a way to make you believe that your version of events is wrong and their version of events is correct. It's really important to notice that, you know, psychopaths and manipulators will gaslight you and will make you feel like you're the crazy person in the equation. So you really have to hold your own at some level with these people.