Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

Is he nervous around you?

13 Oct 2025 · 1 min

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In this concise dating‑advice video, Sami Wunder explains that a man's nervousness around a woman is a primary sign that he finds her physically attractive. She argues that this nervousness stems from primitive, instinctual drives and hormonal reactions, which manifest as fidgeting, touching his hair, shaky posture, lingering glances followed by looking away, and stumbling over words. Wunder frames these behaviors as a natural, cute response to physical attraction and encourages viewers to enjoy and reciprocate the connection when the feelings are mutual.

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The sign that a man likes you— he is nervous around you. Men, when they find a woman physically attractive, they can't help the instinct of wanting her, and they can't hide that instinct. So it's very primitive at some level. So when a man likes you and he finds you physically attractive, that's when you will see that he gets nervous around you. And that nervousness could look like being a little more fidgety around you, Touching his hair around you, just being a little more nervous in his body language, shaky around you, wanting to look at you, then looking away, maybe sometimes even fumbling with his words. And that's because you are literally having a physical impact on him, his body, his hormones, and it's very cute. Okay, so enjoy it, especially if you are building a connection with this man and the feelings are mutual and reciprocal.