Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

Is his energy coming towards you? 🤩

17 Sept 2023 · 1 min

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In this YouTube monologue, Sami Wunder reflects on her own patterns in dating that kept her from attracting and retaining the right partners. She identifies that she often showed up in a disempowered, masculine manner that repelled the type of men she desired. Recognizing this, she made a decisive shift to take personal responsibility for her love life, affirming that she is worthy of being pursued rather than pursuing. She argues that much of the confusion many experience in modern dating stems from chasing men whose energy is not directed toward them, and she encourages viewers to stop pursuing and instead embody a confident, feminine presence that naturally attracts compatible partners.

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I recognized that I was still showing up in ways in dating that were not serving me. And yes, of course, I had met some men who were not right for me, but even when I met the men who were right for me, I was not able to sustain their interest because I was showing up in ways that were disempowered or in my masculine energy, and that was simply not attractive to the kind of men that I wanted to attract in my life. And so this was when I decided to take control of my love life. This was when I decided to take personal responsibility Responsibility for my love life and for my mindset in dating. I really decided I was worth a good man's chase, I was worth a good man's pursuit, and I was not going to pursue or chase any man. And this was a life-changing decision at some level, because I think so much of our confusion, or your confusion in dating right now, may be stemming from pursuing men and feeling attraction towards men whose energy is simply not coming towards you.