In this brief relationship‑advice segment, Sami Wunder explains that a man's niceness toward a woman is often mistaken for mixed romantic signals when, in fact, many men are simply friendly, charismatic, and flirtatious with everyone. She stresses that women should evaluate whether the man's behavior is uniquely directed at them or is part of a general interaction style before assuming romantic interest.
a man is just not that into you. And the reason why he's nice to you, or what you perceive as taking a mixed signal, is because he's nice to everyone. There are men out there who are charismatic, kind, always flowing in that happy, kind, flirtatious energy, regardless of who they're with. And it can be easy to misinterpret their kindness and open personality, because it's not specific to you. But especially if you like that person, you can perceive it romantically. And so sometimes women will say, he's giving me mixed signals, actually, he's not giving any mixed signals. He is just being himself, and you have to figure out if he's that kind of person with everyone or not.
