Is the man making the decisions? 🤔
12 Jan 2024 · 1 min
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In this monologue, Sami Wunder argues that when women adopt traditionally masculine behaviors in dating—such as initiating texts, calls, and setting up dates—they create a dynamic where men feel they are not in control. While men may agree to these plans, they subconsciously perceive the woman as running the relationship. This perception, according to Wunder, causes men to hesitate at key moments in the courtship timeline—such as asking for exclusivity, introducing a partner to family, or proposing—because they feel their decision‑making role has been usurped. The speaker suggests that women’s shift into a masculine role disrupts the expected power balance, leading men to stall or develop doubts about commitment.
