Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

Is your intimacy increasing with time? 🧐

25 Oct 2023 · 1 min

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In this advice‑style monologue, Sami Wunder explains how intimacy and the frequency of dates should naturally increase as a romantic relationship progresses. She outlines a timeline: early weeks involve dating once a week, but by six to eight months couples should be meeting two to three times weekly, visiting each other's homes, and introducing families, indicating an exclusive commitment. When a partner keeps interactions superficial—meeting only once a week or every two weeks—even after several months, it signals emotional unavailability. Wunder uses these observable patterns to help viewers identify whether their partner is allowing the relationship to deepen or is maintaining a surface‑level connection.

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As dating progresses, intimacy should progress. The frequency of dates should progress. Now, with an emotionally unavailable man, he's going to keep things at the surface. He's not going to let the intimacy deepen. And so basically what this means is that you're going to see him like once a week or once every 2 weeks, and that's it. Like, the frequency of dates is not going to increase. Now, once a week is great in the first week of dating. Once a week is great in the second week of dating. But if you're at 6 or 7 or 8 months of dating, by this point, you should be talking about an exclusive commitment. You should be You should be seeing each other at least 2 to 3 times a week. You should be visiting each other's homes. Your families should know about each other. And so when you are not seeing all these really evident signs that he is allowing the relationship and the intimacy to deepen, you know that you're dealing with an emotionally unavailable man.