Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

Is your masculine energy taking over? 🤔

27 Oct 2023 · 1 min

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In this segment, Sami Wunder explains how a woman's partner's emotional unavailability—manifested through infrequent calls or lack of communication—creates a perceived gap and burden of silence. This void often pushes the woman to adopt a more 'masculine' stance, taking on the role of the pursuer and trying to 'save' the connection by initiating contact. Wunder highlights that many women may not recognize this shift, but it stems from the man's failure to provide the effort expected from an emotionally available partner, leading to a dynamic where the woman becomes the chaser in the relationship.

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If you're with an emotionally unavailable man, he probably doesn't call or stay in communication enough. And what that does is that it makes you feel that gap, where you feel that burden of silence, you feel that burden of lack of connection, and therefore you jump into your masculine energy. You jump into the energy of, I'm going to save this connection. I'm going to just call him, or I'm just going to text him, because otherwise our relationship will fall apart. And so often, women don't even realize this, but we start to get in the chasing and pursuing role because the man who is emotionally unavailable is simply not doing the effort that a man who is emotionally available would be doing in a relationship.