Let him be your hero
9 Apr 2024 · 1 min
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In this monologue, Sami Wunder argues that a healthy, empowered masculine man is not attracted to women who adopt a rescuing or overly helpful approach. She claims that when women focus on what they can do for a man—trying to help, please, or be his hero—it undermines his sense of masculinity and reduces his romantic interest. Wunder emphasizes that this dynamic is especially damaging for young women new to dating, as it prevents them from attracting a healthy, confident partner. She advises women to avoid the mindset of "what can I do for him?" and instead let men express their own heroism.
