Let him earn your attention
13 Jun 2025 · 1 min
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In this short monologue, dating coach Sami Wunder argues that women should not give more to a man than he gives to them. She stresses that men need to earn a woman's attention, time, energy, and money, and that a woman’s continued investment despite a lack of reciprocal effort signals low self‑respect. According to Wunder, men deeply value what they work for; when a woman keeps pouring resources into a man who isn’t contributing, it undermines her own respect and leads the man to treat her with less respect. The core message is that mutual respect in dating stems from balanced, reciprocal investment and clear expectations that a partner must earn one’s attention.
