Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

Let him value your presence

14 May 2024 · 1 min

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In this short monologue, Sami Wunder argues that men often come to appreciate a woman's value only when she is absent. She explains that feminine qualities such as nurturing, kindness, pleasantness, and playfulness are highly desired by masculine partners, but when these traits are constantly present they can be taken for granted. By intentionally creating periods of absence, a woman gives a man space to recognize and stop taking those positive attributes for granted, leading him to value her contributions more fully.

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Men fall in love with a woman's absence. In her absence, he finally recognizes the good qualities that you bring to the table. As feminine embodied women, we are nurturing, we are kind, we are pleasant to be around, we are playful. These are qualities that masculine men really crave for. However, too much of a good thing, when present in your life, gets taken for granted. When you are creating absence in a man's life, he finally has time to stop taking for granted all the goodness you brought to his life, has the time to wake up and value what you brought to the table.