Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

Let the man Commit to you!

25 Jan 2024 · 1 min

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In this concise monologue, Sami Wunder advises women on how to encourage a man’s commitment by trusting his natural pursuit instincts and respecting his pacing. She emphasizes that if a man chooses to see a woman once a week, she should honor that rhythm rather than push for more frequent contact. Wunder suggests filling personal time with rotational dating, career pursuits, and personal passions to avoid pressuring the connection. She argues that when a man feels he has freely chosen a woman, his sense of autonomy fuels deeper commitment, whereas pushing the relationship can cause him to lose interest or ghost. The overall message is to let the man’s autonomous choice drive the relationship forward.

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When a guy wants you, he knows what to do. He has the hunting instinct, he has the pursuit instinct, and he will come for you. And all you have to do is trust in that. Respect his speed. If he wants to see you once a week, not twice a week right now, then respect his speed. You can fill your time by rotational dating other men, going on connection dates, by being busy with your own life, your career, your passions. But do not push the connection, because if you push the connection, before you know it, the dynamic is going to flip. He may lose interest, he may disappear, he may ghost, Because for a masculine empowered man, one of the most beautiful things he can experience is that I chose this woman myself, out of my free will, out of my autonomy. And the more he knows that and believes that, the more committed he will be to his choice of being with you.