Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

Make a man pursue you 🤩

11 Jan 2024 · 0 min

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In this concise YouTube monologue, Sami Wunder advises women on how to encourage men to pursue them by mastering the concept of "space". She frames space as a form of feminine energy that involves leaning back and regulating emotions, emphasizing that women should not reveal their feelings to men until those men have earned that trust. Wunder also stresses the importance of self‑priority: if a man fails to prioritize the woman, the most valuable response is to be willing to walk away, thereby reinforcing personal worth and prompting the man to reassess his behavior.

So if you want a man to keep coming for you, to keep pursuing you, you have to learn to master space. Space as feminine energy, leaning back, but also space as emotional regulation. Do not reveal your emotions to men unless they have earned it. And if a man is not behaving the way you want him to behave, your best bet, your most high-value way of showing up, is your ability to walk away and prioritize yourself in the case of a scenario where he's not prioritizing you.