In this segment, Sami Wunder explains that while some men view dating primarily as a route to sex, the majority of men—especially those seeking a serious, long‑term partnership—are willing to wait for physical intimacy. She argues that deliberately delaying sexual contact is a powerful tactic to increase a man's desire, make him want you more, and encourage him to work toward a committed relationship.
Some men are not bad guys, but they do have the belief system that dating is about sex. And if I like you, I should be able to sleep with you. If I don't, this is not dating, and so it's not going to work. However, the majority of men, especially if they're husband material, especially if they are in that stage of their life where they are looking for a partner and a wife or a serious relationship, they are more than happy to wait. Delaying physical intimacy is one of the most powerful ways to get a man wanting you, desiring you, and being willing to work for you.
