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In this segment of her YouTube video, Sami Wunder advises women to avoid declaring strong romantic feelings during the first few dates (1‑3). She argues that early emotional openness can signal limited options and prematurely attach a woman to a partner, which kills the chase and pursuit dynamic. Instead, she recommends waiting until around 15‑20 dates, after the man has demonstrated consistent effort, to share vulnerability. At that point, expressing feelings becomes a strategic display of feminine power, rewarding the man for his effort and reinforcing the woman's desirability while preserving the pursuit.

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