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In this monologue, Sami Wunder argues that when a woman adopts an over‑functioning and over‑giving stance in a relationship, it triggers hormonal changes in men that diminish their sexual attraction and drive. She claims that such female behavior lowers a man's testosterone while increasing his oxytocin and serotonin levels, making him feel comfortable, passive, and less motivated. Wunder links this hormonal shift to a reduction in male polarity and asserts that the loss of testosterone curtails the male instincts of fear of loss, competition, and the drive to secure a partner, ultimately causing men to become lazy and less likely to ‘lock you down.’ The core message is that maintaining a certain level of polarity—by avoiding excessive giving—preserves male attraction and the competitive, protective instincts that sustain relationship commitment.

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