Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

Men don't bond through THIS

26 Apr 2024 · 1 min

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In this excerpt from Sami Wunder's YouTube video, she advises women to uphold their values and postpone physical intimacy in early dating. She argues that while women often form emotional bonds through sex, men typically do not bond in the same way during the early stages of a relationship. Consequently, sleeping with a man early does not increase the likelihood of a committed partnership and may instead raise the risk of heartbreak. Wunder emphasizes that the belief that early sex secures commitment is misguided.

Hold your values, hold your principles, delay physical intimacy, because men are not bonding with you through sex. Whereas as a woman, you are bonding through sex. Just by sleeping with a guy, you're not going to be girlfriend or going to be wife. The chances that you will be hurt and heartbroken are far higher than the chances that you will end up with a committed partnership sleeping quickly with a man because you think that's going to make you win a commitment or a partnership. It doesn't work that way. Men don't bond through sex in early dating.