Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

Men find THIS woman attractive

22 Jun 2025 · 1 min

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In this YouTube monologue, Sami Wunder argues that women who are perceived as "high‑maintenance"—meaning they respect themselves, know their needs and desires, and openly communicate them—are actually more attractive to men who truly value a partner. While insecure, wounded, or effort‑averse men may shy away, a man who likes and respects a woman will appreciate her self‑respect and willingness to express what she wants, leading to higher relationship success with the right kind of men.

The woman who is high maintenance is actually much more attractive to men and has a far higher success rate with the right men. Of course, there's going to be insecure men and wounded men and men who just do not want to make an effort for the right kind of woman. But a man who likes you, a man who values you, is going to love the fact that you are a woman who respects herself, that you are a woman with needs and desires, and you're not afraid to communicate them.