Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

Men find your Confidence Attractive

23 Aug 2024 · 0 min

Watch on YouTube

0:24

In this excerpt from Sami Wunder’s dating advice video, she tells women to never chase men but to mirror a man's effort. She advises keeping text messages no longer than the man's, avoiding the eager‑beaver role, and projecting confidence and self‑worth. Wunder claims men can sense a woman's confidence from a distance, finding it highly attractive, and that if a man fails to put in effort, he will lose the woman's presence in his life.

you will never, ever chase a guy. You're matching a man's effort, mirroring a man's effort. Your texts are never longer than his texts. You are not the eager beaver. Men find this really attractive because they can smell from miles apart that you know your value and you know your worth. And if he doesn't do the work and put in the work, he will not have you in his life. That confidence is super duper attractive.