Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

Men like & appreciate THIS

5 May 2024 · 1 min

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In this short YouTube monologue, Sami Wunder argues that women become more attractive to men when they appear less available and care less about the relationship. She claims that by focusing on one’s own life—checking the phone less, not replying instantly to texts or calls, and not being overly attentive—a woman creates a psychological space that encourages a man to step up, put in more effort, and maintain his role as the ‘man’ in the partnership. This reduced availability, according to Wunder, signals independence and value, which men find appealing and appreciate.

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Women who care less about men are more attractive to men, and because this leaves the natural space for a man to continue being the man in the relationship. When you care less, you are busy with your own life, you are checking your phone less, you are organically and automatically less available. You're not answering his text the minute he sends it, not picking every single call, not so focused on him, and then he can't see you as he would like to see you. All of this is super attractive because it leaves that space for him to step up, rise up, and make more effort for you. He likes that and appreciates that.