Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

Men love feminine women

26 Feb 2025 · 2 min

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In this YouTube monologue, relationship coach Sami Wunder explains that healthy, masculine men are naturally drawn to women who embody "feminine energy." She describes feminine energy as playful, supportive, emotionally present, and capable of listening and teasing in a kind, happy manner. According to Wunder, such energy amplifies a man's existing emotional state: it encourages more contact and affection from men who are already emotionally available, but it cannot transform men who are emotionally avoidant or unavailable. She emphasizes that a lack of response from an avoidant man is not a reflection on the woman, but rather a limitation of the man's capacity for vulnerability. Wunder concludes by offering a "35-Behavior Feminine Energy Checklist" as a tool for women to attract the right masculine partners, inviting viewers to comment "feminine" to receive the link.

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Healthy masculine men are suckers for feminine energy. Your laughter, your playfulness, you slightly teasing them, you being able to listen to them when they really need it, you being able to understand their emotional experience. Most of the times, you know, they're working really hard. They're feeling quite burnt out by all the pressures of their mission. And even if they are holding it together, just a woman walking into their lives that is supportive, that is kind, that is happy in her own energy, is so attractive to the right masculine men. When they feel this energy from you, they want more of it. A man who is instinct-based, who's a healthy masculine man, will automatically text you more, call you more, ask you out. However, feminine energy magnifies what's inside a man. If a man is emotionally avoidant, he's emotionally unavailable, he's afraid of his own feelings, he resists vulnerability, then you could be the most magnetic feminine energy woman in the room, and he will still not approach you. This doesn't mean anything is wrong with you. This just means that you have to trust that Feminine Energy does not magically change an avoidant man or change an emotionally unavailable man. It actually just highlights what kind of a man you're dealing with. Now, if you want to attract a healthy, masculine, loving man, I have an amazing 35-Behavior Feminine Energy Checklist that will get the right men knocking at your door. Comment feminine below and my team will give you the link.