Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

Men need THIS in a relationship ✅

5 Dec 2023 · 0 min

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In this YouTube clip, relationship coach Sami Wunder argues that men require clear boundaries and a sense of challenge within a romantic partnership. He emphasizes that distance—providing space and a challenge—is essential for masculine men, and that excessive warmth or constant availability undermines attraction. According to Wunder, when a partner is overly nice and lacks distance, dates become less frequent and sexual activity diminishes because the necessary challenge element is missing.

Boundaries are really just that element that men need. They need that challenge. They need you to speak your mind. Distance is the part of challenge that a masculine man needs. And if you're too nice, if you're too much in the warmth and not enough in the distance, you will find that your dates trickle out, the sex gets less frequent in your relationship, simply because you are forgetting to create the challenge element in your relationship.