Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

Narcissistic men do THIS!

31 May 2025 · 1 min

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In this monologue, Sami Wunder explains how certain unhealthy, narcissistic men deliberately give mixed signals to women. Their primary goal is not genuine connection but to manipulate emotions, test their own ego, and seek validation from attractive or glamorous women outside of their existing, often unhappy, relationships. These men avoid taking responsibility for their own marital or relational dissatisfaction, instead using flirtation and superficial caring as a means to boost their self‑esteem. Wunder warns that such men are not interested in a real partnership; they will appear attentive yet never commit to dates or deeper involvement, using the attention solely to feed their ego.

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There will be some men who are unhealthy men, who are narcissists, and the only reason why they will give you mixed signals is because they want to play with your emotions and they want to string you along. There are a lot of people who are in unhappy marriages, unhappy relationships, and for whatever reason, they are not walking out of those relationships. They don't want to take that responsibility. They often go looking for validation from pretty women, from young women, from glamorous women outside of their relationships. Now, such men can often give mixed signals on purpose, simply because they want your validation. They want to test, would a woman like you, who is so amazing, give him attention, fall for him? These men, they are not about you at all, even though on the surface, they will show that they really care and treat you so well, and then never ask you out and never take you on a date. These kinds of men are just doing it for their ego. They're doing it to be validated by women.