Never attack a man’s core sense of worth

Never attack his core sense of worth. Sometimes when a man has upset you, disappointed you, been mean to you, there can be a temptation to attack his core sense of worth. Like, you're not good enough, you don't even make enough money, you don't even drive a fancy car. That's like hitting below the belt. It's like telling somebody you're not good enough, you're not worthy. That wound can run deep inside men. Healthy men are actually really sensitive to this attack on their deep self-respect. Every man wants to feel like he's worthy, he's valuable, he can contribute and provide something. Never attack a man's core sense of worth. Don't get nasty in your words or in your arguments, even when you're I'm upset.