Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

Self-love and self-acceptance are CRUCIAL to succeed in dating ❤️🔥

20 Jul 2023 · 1 min

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In this coaching excerpt, Sami Wunder argues that many women focus on surface‑level "feminine energy" strategies—such as deliberately not calling or texting men—while remaining trapped in self‑judgment, anxiety, and resentment toward themselves and men. She explains that this mental over‑activity fuels frustration and restlessness in dating and relationships. The core remedy she proposes is shifting from judgment to genuine acceptance of oneself and others, which she claims will dramatically raise authentic feminine energy and improve dating outcomes.

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So many times, we will do the superficial Feminine Energy work. We will try to not call a man, not text a man, but we're still a lot in our heads, and we're judging the world, and we're judging ourselves, and we're hard on ourselves, and we don't like ourselves, and we don't like men. All of this frustration and all of this restlessness and anxiety that we feel in dating and in our relationships is so often coming because we're living so much in the mind and we're judging so much. And so if you can start tuning more into acceptance, of self and of others, you are massively going to uplevel, um, and increase your feminine energy.