Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

Set your boundaries in early dating

22 Nov 2025 · 1 min

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In this monologue, Sami Wunder warns that many men on dating apps are primarily seeking casual sex, often disguising their true intentions. While some men are honest about wanting casual relationships, most conceal this motive. Wunder emphasizes the importance of recognizing subtle signals of a casual‑sex agenda and establishing firm personal boundaries. She advises against dating men who are overly forward about sexual topics or who push for sex early in the dating process, recommending that listeners avoid such individuals to protect their own relationship goals.

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A lot of men on dating apps are looking for just casual sex, casual dating. Now, there are some men who are honest about it, bless them, but most men will come disguised. Most men will not really tell you that that's all what they're looking for, and therefore, it is your job to see these signs and to put a hard boundary around this. I would literally not recommend dating a man who is so upfront about sexuality and sex and approaching sex and, how do you like sex? And, when do you want to have sex? Early on, in the dating process.