Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

Silly Excuses 😡 Men Give When They Are NOT Ready To Propose 💔

12 Jun 2023 · 1 min

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In this short YouTube monologue, Sami Wunder lists and debunks three common excuses men use to avoid proposing: (1) needing the right career and finances, (2) wanting more time to test the relationship, and (3) claiming there’s no rush. She counters each excuse with a personal anecdote about marrying her husband before they were financially secure and building a multi‑seven‑figure business together, labeling the excuses as offensive and dismissive. She emphasizes that women deserve clear commitment, urging them to expect a ring if a partner truly cares, and expresses her desire for safety, happiness, and a family.

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Here are 3 silly excuses men will give you when they're not ready to propose to you. Number 1, I have to make sure my career and my finances are in the right place before I propose. But why? What does money have to do with loving somebody and openly committing to them? My husband proposed to me when both of us had nothing. Today, we run a multi-7-figure empire together. Number 2, I want to make sure that we can truly be a couple in the long run, and this is why I want to give this more time. Really? This is offensive. Because you're literally test-driving me right now, because you're not sure whether or not we can be a real couple in the long run. Number 3, what's the rush, babe? We're doing so well together. Well, there is no rush, apart from the fact that I would like to have a family, have children, move on from wondering whether or not you are ever going to propose, or when you will propose. I just want to feel safe and be happy. Remember, ladies, if he likes you, he should put a ring on it.