Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

Sleeping with a man doesn't mean falling in love

2 Feb 2024 · 1 min

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In this YouTube segment, relationship coach Sami Wunder argues that having sex early with a man does not make him fall in love. She advises women to delay sexual gratification not as a manipulative game or a ‘hard‑to‑get’ tactic, but from a perspective of presenting themselves as ‘wife material.’ According to Wunder, if a man is truly seeking a lifelong partner, focusing solely on the sexual part of his brain won’t help achieve that goal; instead, postponing sex signals a deeper, long‑term commitment orientation.

delay sexually gratifying a man, not from a place of playing games or a place of playing hard to get or being high maintenance, but from a place of understanding that if somebody is really desiring to select a wife, and if you want to show up as wife material, then engaging only the sexual part of a man's brain, which is so easy to access both for him and for you, is not going to help you get that result. Sleeping with a man and having sex with a man quickly is not the way to make a man fall in love with you.