Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

Slow Down to Be More Feminine @SamiWunder #femininewoman #feminineenergy #slowdown #datinginyour40s

6 Dec 2022 · 1 min

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In this brief advisory monologue, Sami Wunder argues that while speed and efficiency are prized in professional contexts, they can be detrimental to romantic relationships. She urges women to deliberately slow down their walking and speech, especially around their male partners, to become more present—free from past or future preoccupations. This heightened presence signals authenticity and creates deeper emotional connection, fostering stronger bonds with dating partners, husbands, or long‑term companions.

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In the successful woman's world, speed is of importance, but efficiency is not the only value that we want to give importance to. That which helps us succeed in our careers is not necessarily our best friends in our love lives. You really want to take a moment and slow down. Slow down the speed of your walking, slow down the speed of your talking, especially around your man, because it is when you slow down that you really start to feel the And when you do that, your man, or the man you're dating, or your husband of many years, is going to feel that difference in you. He is going to feel that you are more present, which means you are less in your head, you're not in the past, you're not in the future. You're here, you're now, and that is how, through presence, you are able to create connection. And that's how you create connection.