Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

Stop being exclusive quickly

17 May 2024 · 1 min

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In this monologue, Sami Wunder warns women against becoming exclusive with men after only a few dates. She argues that modern dating dynamics allow men to gain the benefits of a girlfriend—sexual access, companionship, social status—by simply labeling a woman as a girlfriend after roughly three dates, without any genuine commitment to a future relationship. From the male perspective, this early exclusivity is a low-cost exchange: the man stops seeing other women, enjoys the woman's company and sexual intimacy, and can showcase her to friends, all while the label does not obligate him to long-term plans. Wunder frames this as a cautionary insight, urging women to recognize the imbalance and avoid premature exclusivity.

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Stop getting exclusive with men so quickly. Exclusivity in the modern dating landscape is favoring men. A man simply has to offer you the girlfriend title 3 dates in, and whoa, he has a ticket to sleep with you. From the perspective of a guy, it's not a very big price to pay to stop seeing other women, seeing you and you alone, have your beautiful company, have sex with you, call you his girlfriend, have your beautiful feminine energy in his home, show you off to his friends, Meanwhile, knowing all this while that it doesn't have to mean anything for the future.