STOP focusing on him
26 Sept 2024 · 1 min

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In this solo monologue, Sami Wunder advises women that to make a man become obsessed with them, they must first become obsessed with themselves. She argues that focusing energy on the man drains the woman, leading to anxiety and insecurity. Instead, she encourages cultivating self‑love and personal fulfillment—through style and fashion as self‑expression, engaging hobbies, and meaningful work. By living a vibrant, self‑centered life, a woman naturally attracts and retains a man's attention.










