Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

Texts that show he is interested in you

31 Jan 2025 · 1 min

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In this YouTube segment, dating coach Sami Wunder outlines three distinct categories of text messages that men typically send when they are genuinely interested in a woman. The first, and most crucial, is the logistical text, where the man focuses on arranging the next meeting, indicating eagerness to see her in person. The second type is the check‑in text, which serves to keep the connection alive by sharing personal updates and asking about her day, reflecting a desire not to go silent. The third category comprises romantic and complimenting texts, where the man expresses admiration, tells the woman she’s special, and shares how often he thinks about her, driven by instinctual romantic motives. Wunder explains the emotional motivations behind each type, helping viewers recognize signs of genuine interest in digital communication.

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Here are 3 kinds of texts men will send you when they are interested in you. The first text, and the most important one, is logistical text, which is going to talk about when he's meeting you next. So he's going to be deciding the date and time of the meeting, because he literally can't wait to see you, because he's interested. Type of text number 2 that a man will send when he's interested in you is just checking on you kind of texts. This is where the emotion is that he doesn't want to lose connection with you, so he doesn't want to go silent on you for 3 days. So he's going to send some of his own updates, how his day was, and he'd love to know what you're doing and how things are going for you, just so that the connection remains alive. And type of text #3 that a man will send when he's interested is romantic and complimenting texts. You know, he's going to tell you why you're special, how you're looking pretty, how he can't stop thinking about you. And this is because men are instinct-based in romance, and when they like you, they want to let you know because they want to see that smile on your face.