Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

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29 Aug 2023 · 1 min

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In this segment of her YouTube video, Sami Wunder advises viewers to maintain an element of surprise and mystery during the early stages of dating. She suggests altering one's appearance—such as wearing a red dress, changing hair, or adopting a new hobby—to keep a partner intrigued. Wunder cautions against revealing all personal achievements (e.g., language fluency, academic degrees, extensive travel) on the first few dates, recommending a gradual self‑disclosure strategy so that the mystery factor remains alive and attraction stays strong.

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You always wear a certain kind of clothing style, you always wear jeans and t-shirts. I would say, surprise him with a red dress and red lips, or change your hair, or try a different kind of hobby. Even if you're dating, surprise him. Don't rattle out everything about yourself on date 1, 2, or 3. Let yourself be revealed over time. So, for example, you don't have to tell a man that you speak 3 languages on date #1, that you have a master's degree on date #1, and that you've traveled to over 40 countries of the world on date number 1. You can reveal these things over time to keep the surprise element alive, to keep that mystery factor alive.