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In this short YouTube monologue, relationship coach Sami Wunder argues that men are not drawn to women who seek their validation. He claims that healthy, masculine men are attracted to women who love, value, and appreciate themselves. While adopting this self‑loving stance may be easier during casual dating, Wunder warns that in long‑term relationships many women gradually abandon self‑care, personal hobbies, and self‑interest, focusing instead on their partner and relationship problems. This shift, he says, leads to negative outcomes for both partners.

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