Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

THIS attracts men to you

26 Jul 2024 · 1 min

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In this solo advice video, Sami Wunder argues that many women remain single and find modern dating challenging because they carry unhealed, negative beliefs about men. She explains that past hurts lead to default protective responses—assuming men are cheating, dishonest, non‑committal, or only interested in sex. These limiting beliefs cause women to act guarded, competitive, and keep emotional walls up, which in turn attracts emotionally unavailable men. Wunder advises that to attract a healthy, empowered, masculine partner, women must first heal their relationship with the opposite sex, work through these limiting beliefs, and relearn how to fall in love with men again.

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The reason you are still single and modern dating feels hard is because you have not worked on healing your relationship with men. A lot of us have been hurt by men. We start to hate men, judge men. We don't even realize it because it's almost like a default response. You just want to protect yourself. You think all men cheat, all men lie. You think no man wants to commit. You think men just want sex. When you have these limiting beliefs, you keep manifesting them in your dating experiences. You go on your dates feeling guarded, feeling competitive, having walls around your heart, and you manifest men who are emotionally unavailable. If you want to attract a healthy, empowered, masculine man, heal your relationship with the opposite sex. Do that healing work. Learn to fall in love with men again.