Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

This Behavior TURNS MEN OFF 🙅‍♀️💔 Stay In Your Feminine Energy

24 Jun 2023 · 1 min

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In this YouTube monologue, relationship coach Sami Wunder explains her view of "feminine energy" as the capacity to receive positive attention, gifts, compliments, and effort from men. She argues that many women, especially those who identify more with masculine traits or feel uncomfortable receiving, tend to deflect compliments and downplay praise (e.g., dismissing a compliment about appearance by claiming a bad hair day). According to Wunder, this defensive behavior signals an inability to accept the "good stuff" a man offers, which she says ultimately turns men off and undermines attraction. The segment serves as a warning and a call to women to embrace receptivity as a core component of feminine energy in relationships.

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Feminine energy is all about being able to receive the good stuff from men, whether it be gifts, whether it be compliments, whether it be his attention or his effort. Now, if you are anything like I used to be, more in your masculine, or if you are uncomfortable with being in your feminine and receiving energy, what's going to happen is that when men will give you compliments, you will deflect those compliments. Let's say, for example, A man says, wow, you look great today! And you go like, oh, but you know, I didn't wash my hair. It's actually quite dirty. I was having a bad hair day. And you think it's vulnerable and you think it's innocent, but actually, it turns a man off because it makes him feel like you can't really receive the goodness he's offering you.