Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

THIS destroys romance & love in your relationship

19 Nov 2024 · 1 min

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In this brief monologue, relationship coach Sami Wunder warns women—whom she calls “Divas”—against falling into an “overgiving zone” with a partner. She describes the overgiving mindset as a situation where a woman feels she has done everything for the man and would be devastated if he left. According to Wunder, this dynamic causes the man to become lazier (more feminine) while the woman becomes increasingly masculine, leading to a loss of desire, passion, romance, and love. She urges viewers not to overgive to men, positioning the advice as a reality check to protect relationship vitality.

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If this guy that you like, you're with right now, were to leave tomorrow, would you say something like, oh my goodness, I can't believe he left me after everything I did for him? If you share this sentiment right now, if you feel this way right now, this is a good reality check that you are in the overgiving zone. This is a zone I do not want my Divas to be, because it is the zone where the man gets lazier and lazier, you get more and more in your masculine, he gets more and more in his feminine, and it is the death and disaster of desire, passion, romance, and love. So do not overgive to men.