Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

THIS from your man, is a positive sign

13 Aug 2024 · 1 min

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In this brief monologue, Sami Wunder addresses common pitfalls in romantic relationships, emphasizing that expecting a partner to read one's mind is unfair. He highlights the importance of clear, responsible communication—whether one is speaking ineffectively or remaining silent. Wunder advises listeners to assess whether their partner is willing to engage with lingering resentment and make an effort to resolve issues, even if the effort isn’t perfect. Recognizing a partner’s willingness to try is presented as a positive sign that justifies giving the relationship another chance.

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So often we want our partners to read our minds, and that's not fair on our partners. You've tried talking, but the way you're talking is not landing. Or maybe you're, you're not talking. You have shut yourself down. This is not healthy. It is really important to take responsibility, to speak your part, to do your part in the process. You have to see, is he willing to engage with our resentment? Does he want to solve it? Maybe he doesn't get it right, he doesn't get it perfect, but is he at least trying? Does he show that willingness? Is what you're looking for your partner trying? That's a really positive sign, and it means you should give the relationship a chance.