Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

THIS increases his attraction for you

31 Aug 2024 · 0 min

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In this short advice clip, Sami Wunder explains that deliberately not trying too hard and appearing evaluative—by taking your time and not appearing easily winnable—signals high personal value to a man. This perception prompts him to invest more time and energy to win you over, which in turn amplifies his attraction. The core message is that strategic restraint creates a sense of scarcity, leading to increased investment and stronger attraction.

When you are not trying too hard, you are communicating that you're evaluating. When you're evaluating, you take your time. When you take your time, you give him the impression that you're not that easily winnable. When you give the impression that you're not that easily winnable, he understands that you're valuable because he needs to invest his time and energy into you in order to win you over time, which in turn increases his investment in you and his attraction for you.