Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

This is a mixed signal men give!

25 May 2025 · 1 min

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In this YouTube monologue, Sami Wunder explains a common dating pattern where a man maintains constant digital contact—frequent texts, phone calls, likes, and story views—yet never takes the next step to ask the woman out. She describes how this mixed signal creates confusion and frustration for women who have genuine feelings for the man, highlighting the psychological tension between high attention and lack of commitment. The video frames the behavior as a mixed signal that can leave women questioning the man's intentions, especially when they desire the relationship to progress.

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He is constantly in touch with you, constantly texting with you, constantly on the phone with you, liking all your social media pictures, watching all your stories, but he never takes the next step. This is a mixed signal. Your brain wonders, why is this person giving me so much attention, texting with me so much, and then not asking me out? This is very frustrating, especially when you have feelings for that person. Now, if you don't care about the man, it doesn't matter. But if you like the man and you would like to see things progress with him, then this kind of a mixed signal can feel really confusing for the woman.