Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

THIS is attractive to an empowered man

18 Mar 2024 · 1 min

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In this short monologue, Sami Wunder explains that when a woman gives an authentic "no" to a healthy, empowered, masculine man—because she has prior commitments such as meeting friends, going to the gym, attending a dance class, or working on her business—the man will find her more attractive. He argues that the genuine refusal signals independence and self‑direction, leading the man to view the woman as sexy and respect her schedule rather than expecting her to drop her plans for him.

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When a healthy, empowered, masculine man asks you out on a date or wants to do something with you, but you say an authentic no because you have other plans and you are going to meet your friends, or you are going for your gym, or you are going for your dance class, or maybe you're just working on your business and that is a day allotted to work. If you say that authentic no to an empowered, masculine man, he's going to think you are really sexy, and he's going to see you as an independent woman who is not going to drop her life, her schedule, just because she's met this great guy.