Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

This is how you value yourself, in your relationship 😍 🥰

3 Sept 2023 · 1 min

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In this excerpt from her YouTube video, Sami Wunder emphasizes that the foundation of successful dating is maintaining 100% self‑value. She argues that tolerating any negative behavior—such as a man flirting with another woman, arriving late, or failing to follow through on a promised call—signals reduced worth to the partner and diminishes his pursuit. By consistently enforcing clear boundaries and refusing to accept disrespect, a woman communicates her value, keeping the man interested and preventing him from taking her for granted.

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If you see that, actually, in dating, your job is to really just value yourself 100% of the time, you will understand why accepting or tolerating bad behavior from even a man you like is actually reducing your value in his eyes. And this is why, you know, you do not want to tolerate bad behavior. You do not want to tolerate a man flirting with another woman in front of you. You do not want to tolerate a man showing up late on dates. You do not want to be okay with a man saying, I'll call you at this time, and then not calling you. It doesn't you have to throw a big drama. Understanding that your boundaries and your value communication to men, especially the ones you like, is so important in order for them to not stop chasing you.