THIS is not your fault!

In this segment of the YouTube video “THIS is not your fault!” Sami Wunder explains that when a woman displays strong feminine energy and appears to be “wife‑material,” a man may suddenly withdraw. He argues that this reaction is not a reflection of the woman’s worth but rather a signal of the man’s current priorities and readiness for a serious relationship. Wunder describes how some men initially chase women for the excitement and dopamine of the pursuit, but once they perceive a potential long‑term commitment, they step back if they are not prepared for that level of commitment. The core message reassures listeners that a man’s withdrawal is situational, not a personal fault, and emphasizes that timing, not personal deficiency, often drives such dating dynamics.










