Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

This makes you powerful in love

26 May 2024 · 1 min

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In this brief YouTube segment, relationship coach Sami Wunder argues that a woman’s intentional absence is a powerful tool in romantic dynamics. She explains that when a man experiences a partner’s purposeful distance, he begins to think about her, miss her, and recognize his desire for her. This emotional gap, according to Wunder, fuels his motivation to reach out, commit, and openly declare love. She advises women not to fear or avoid absence, but to hold that space deliberately so the man chooses to return, thereby granting the woman genuine power in love.

Your absence is powerful for men. Your absence is what makes him think about you, miss you, and know that he wants you. That fuels and inspires him to reach out again, to commit to you, to declare that he loves you and you're the one for him. Do not be afraid of absence. He falls in love with your absence. When you can hold that space for him to come back and choose you, for him to miss you and then make the choice to come to you, that's when you become really powerful in love.