Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

THIS prevents emotional bonding

20 Jun 2024 · 1 min

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In this brief monologue, Sami Wunder argues that men require time to develop emotional bonds with a partner. He claims that agreeing to rapid exclusivity forces men into a purely sexual relationship, because they have not 'worked for' the connection. This lack of effort devalues the sexual interaction, leading men to take the partner for granted and preventing deep emotional care, concern, and bonding. The core message is that quick exclusivity blocks the natural process of emotional bonding between a man and a woman.

Men need time to bond. When you say yes to quick exclusivity, you have prevented a guy from bonding with you emotionally. He's just going to bond with you sexually, and he's not going to value that sexual interaction because he hasn't really worked for it. Men value what they work for. So if he's not worked for it, he's going to sleep with you without really valuing you, going to take you a little for granted, and he hasn't emotionally bonded with you. When we are exclusive with somebody, sex is in the picture. We prevent that deep emotional care, concern, and bonding happening between a man and a woman.