Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

THIS repels men and pushes them away

16 Feb 2024 · 0 min

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In this segment, relationship coach Sami Wunder explains that when women adopt masculine‑styled behaviors—such as trying to solve a man's problems or taking on a helper role—they unintentionally repel men. He grounds this claim in the principle of polarity, which posits that masculine energy (typically embodied by men) is naturally attracted to feminine energy. Consequently, displaying masculine‑embodied qualities within dating, marriage, or partnership dynamics creates a mismatch that pushes the man away. The advice urges women to embody their feminine energy instead of stepping into a problem‑solving, masculine stance if they wish to maintain attraction.

by solving problems and helping a guy, you are actually pushing him away. Men are repelled by women who are in their masculine energy, because based on the principle of polarity, masculine energy men are attracted to women who are in their feminine. And so when you are displaying those masculine embodied qualities in a dating dynamic, or in your marriage, or in your partnership, you are literally pushing the guy away.