Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

THIS will hurt your success with men

7 Apr 2024 · 0 min

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In this YouTube monologue, Sami Wunder argues that women who try to appear "high value" by artificially holding back emotionally and following rigid dating rules actually sabotage their own success with men. She claims that when a man senses a woman is constrained by these self-imposed concepts, it creates a perception of inauthenticity, leading to failure in romantic pursuits. Wunder advises women to relax both their actions and emotions, embracing a more natural, less calculated approach to improve their attractiveness and relationship outcomes.

as a woman when you're with a guy. And if the guy is sensing that you're holding back artificially, or that you have all these concepts and rules around which you work, because you think that's going to make him think that you're high value, you're going to fail miserably. Women lean back, not just in action, which is the right way to do it, but also in emotion. And this is really hurting your success with men.