Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

Three Signs You’re in ‘Performance Energy’ On Your Dates by Sami Wunder

29 May 2023 · 1 min

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In this brief coaching video, relationship expert Sami Wunder addresses high‑achieving women who approach dating with a ‘performance energy.’ She outlines three tell‑tale signs: (1) feeling intense pressure to be entertaining and fun, (2) leading conversations with a litany of personal achievements, wealth, or promotions, and (3) filling awkward silences out of fear of appearing boring. Wunder reminds viewers that women are the ones auditioning men, not the reverse, and invites them to acknowledge these patterns with an emoji. She then promotes her “Leap Into Love” Soulmate Attraction program as a way to attract a dream partner quickly. A brief motivational interjection from a second speaker (“I’ll keep getting up when I hit the ground… never give up”) follows the main segment.

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Sign number 1, you put a lot of pressure on yourself to be interesting and full of fun on a date. Sign number 2, you lead a lot with your achievements and talking about everything you've done and achieved, and maybe even the money you make and the promotions you got. Sign number 3, you fill the awkward silences in the conversation because you're afraid of coming across as boring. Now, if you resonated with this, give me a quick emoji below, and do not judge yourself. A lot of the amazing, high-achieving women I work with tend to show up with performance energy on their dates. But here's the thing, my loves: you ladies are the ones auditioning the men, not the other way around. If you'd love for me to help you attract your dream man in record time, check out Leap Into Love, my Soulmate Attraction program.
Let you get me down, I'll keep getting up when I hit the ground. Oh, never give up.