Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

Want him to be obsessed with you?

22 Sept 2024 · 1 min

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In this YouTube monologue, Sami Wunder observes that many women desire a partner who is completely obsessed with them, expecting grand romantic gestures such as magical dates, flowers, and passionate intimacy. She argues that in the pursuit of this ideal, women often lose sight of their own identity, becoming nagging, dissatisfied, and emotionally depressed. This self‑neglect can lead to unhappiness, weight gain, and a sense of loneliness, highlighting the paradox that the very behavior meant to secure a man's attention may instead erode personal well‑being.

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Many women want their man to be obsessed with them. They want their man to do grand romantic gestures for them. They want the man to set up magical dates. They want him to bring flowers, make love to her. But in the wanting of all of that, most women forget who they are becoming. They're becoming a version of themselves that is nagging, complaining, dissatisfied, unhappy, sitting on the couch, maybe even putting on weight because we feel so sad and depressed and we really want our man's attention. I don't want to be alone.