Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

What is polarity in relationships #relationshipadvice #relationshiptips #relationships

12 Feb 2026 · 1 min

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In this video, relationship coach Sami Wunder explains the concept of polarity, describing it as the dynamic where the man operates from his masculine energy and the woman from her feminine energy within a partnership. She observes that many couples successfully apply polarity principles while dating, but once they become comfortable in a long‑term relationship or marriage, they often adopt behaviors that diminish the man's attraction. She cites examples from clients in her ELEVATE program to illustrate how comfort can erode the energetic balance that fuels desire.

Polarity is when the man is in his Masculine, ideally, and the woman is more in her Feminine, ideally, within the partnership. Now, what happens over time is— even see this with our clients in ELEVATE, you know— they use the principles of Feminine Energy and Polarity in dating, but the minute they are in the marriage, in the relationship, they get super comfortable, and they start to do behaviors that kill his attraction,